My thoughts after 8 months of my marriage
When we first decided to get married, our instant worry was finding the right date. We needed one which was a weekend, or a holiday; one where all our relatives from outside the country could join in, one where the marriage hall was not booked and one where we both had enough time to plan our dream wedding. Post that we focused on finding the right clothes, cutting costs, getting the cards printed and an entire long list of wedding worries. It was a whole big list of wedding related-things but not even one part of it was about what our lives would be like after marriage. Not even once did we sit down and talk about the bigger picture, and that is the heart of the problem when it comes to marriage. We are normally so caught up with planning the dream wedding, and the perfect honeymoon that we often forget to plan for life post all the fun and parties. As someone who will now blow out candles on their first anniversary cake, here are some honest things that I wish people had told me, an