NEW LIFE OF MOM

I think of you, staring at these landscapes, of the wishes you drape yourself in, walking barefoot on lands previously unseen, Feeling every inch of the magic that lays sprawling in front of you. And you ask yourself, A million questions, And I watch your smile, Answering them all. And I think of the days to come, of times waiting for our arrival, of roads we are yet to walk, of villages we are yet to call home, of stars that are yet to twinkle above our bodies, of sun rays to hit your skin, And for unexpected rains, To drench our souls. And I think of these roads, which somewhere merge with all we are, Clueless, And yet with all the hope in our heart, That we will discover it, Whatever lays waiting for us.

When we first decided to get married, our instant worry was finding the right date. We needed one which was a weekend, or a holiday; one where all our relatives from outside the country could join in, one where the marriage hall was not booked and one where we both had enough time to plan our dream wedding. Post that we focused on finding the right clothes, cutting costs, getting the cards printed and an entire long list of wedding worries. It was a whole big list of wedding related-things but not even one part of it was about what our lives would be like after marriage. Not even once did we sit down and talk about the bigger picture, and that is the heart of the problem when it comes to marriage. We are normally so caught up with planning the dream wedding, and the perfect honeymoon that we often forget to plan for life post all the fun and parties. As someone who will now blow out candles on their first anniversary cake, here are some honest things that I wish people had told me, an...

After

I love my husband and his family but does it mean that i can't love my parents and family anymore. Yes, I got married 50 days back and every day is a new struggle of a new adjustment in life. Naturally everything I am comparing to previous set of family and upbringing and that's the biggest mistake I am doing. One thing I learnt is start this new life as if you just entered kindergarten. This is just like learning a new language altogether. Everything you knew till now about it has to be forgot and learning has to start fresh again.

Omg!! I'm so happy and excited to see the sketch i created on my new note pro tab. Thanks for this amazing gift. Sharing the sketch with everyone, though i'm terrible at drawing, still through sketch book i could create it..feeling so happy and excited... i could use my creative side after a long time.. it gives you a sense of achievement. I feel on top of the world.

Yesterday I was surfing about few words and then It took me to a link of symptoms of depression and why is it increasing these days. In the era of technology and modern outlook, why and how depression is on rise,specifically in areas where people have the best of facilities. Why people who have the choices are still fall into such spaces. Its very sad to know that being alone and continuous work flow can make you go in such extreme conditions. What exactly is depression in normal terms. Its nothing but state of our mind where we choose to live without happiness. Sometimes you deliberately do it and sometimes you don't even realize and are depressed which is most harmful. Tips to overcome such state of emotions: # Be your own happiness: No one is responsible for your happiness other than you. No one in your life has the power to take your happiness away. Be so strong that you can always bend happiness and stay in your life. # Learn to appreciate what you have: I am not asking...

Sometimes such things happen in your life and it literally shakes you inside out. You can't really expect what can happen next very moment in your life. So many sad incidents happening around that its taking my strength away to believe in anything. Tell if you love someone right now.. Tell them if you miss them. If you had a fight with someone, go and say sorry now. This moment will never come back. Live it to its best. Make it worth living for everyone around you. Life is unpredictable and you will never know when it will be gone. Know a girl who is young entrepreneur expecting her first child. The glow on her face, the excitement she has, the enthusiasm and eagerness for child totally visible, not in just her eyes but in her family too was something to see. All of a sudden, before a week due of her baby, she was hospitalized, all were nervous, worried and suddenly doctor tells that the girl is no more but the baby survived. She died while she was delivering her first baby.. The...